Comments on: Wheeling For Cowards http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm Talking about Body Integrity Identity Disorder - Just another disability! Fri, 30 Jul 2010 12:00:07 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7-beta2 hourly 1 By: Sean http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19845 Sean Mon, 08 Feb 2010 22:13:27 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19845 @Chris, I must have been thinking of another Chris, sorry @Chris, I must have been thinking of another Chris, sorry

]]> By: Mark Comer http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19843 Mark Comer Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:24:19 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19843 Chris: Is it acceptible to post my email address here? I'd rather it not be public (even though everyone in Nigeria seems to have it...). Yeah- I'd love to discuss this with someone! Chris:
Is it acceptible to post my email address here? I’d rather it not be public (even though everyone in Nigeria seems to have it…). Yeah- I’d love to discuss this with someone!

]]> By: chris http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19838 chris Mon, 08 Feb 2010 15:41:25 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19838 Sorry for all the confusion, Mark's right and I'm not blind, yet...Mark, there are very few like us, I'd love to talk with you more if possible. Sorry for all the confusion, Mark’s right and I’m not blind, yet…Mark, there are very few like us, I’d love to talk with you more if possible.

]]> By: Mark Comer http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19836 Mark Comer Mon, 08 Feb 2010 13:21:04 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19836 I misunderstood: Chris wrote: "as someone whose biid involves wanting to be blind" I assumed that he was not actually or literally physically blind. Wheelchair users I've met aplenty during my years as a wheelerman, but only two other than myself who was "BIID-Blind". I misunderstood: Chris wrote: “as someone whose biid involves wanting to be blind” I assumed that he was not actually or literally physically blind. Wheelchair users I’ve met aplenty during my years as a wheelerman, but only two other than myself who was “BIID-Blind”.

]]> By: Sean http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19832 Sean Mon, 08 Feb 2010 05:39:51 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19832 @Mark, no, Chris is *actually* blind... @Mark, no, Chris is *actually* blind…

]]> By: Mark Comer http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19828 Mark Comer Mon, 08 Feb 2010 01:21:17 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19828 CHRIS! YOU'RE BLIND? Tell me how you do it! Do you have the contact lenses? I use swim goggles painted on the inside with a vinyl goop called "Plasti-Dip". Have you been publicly blind? Can you read braille? (sorry- there doesn't seem to be many of us blind guys around). CHRIS! YOU’RE BLIND? Tell me how you do it! Do you have the contact lenses? I use swim goggles painted on the inside with a vinyl goop called “Plasti-Dip”. Have you been publicly blind? Can you read braille? (sorry- there doesn’t seem to be many of us blind guys around).

]]> By: Mark Comer http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19827 Mark Comer Mon, 08 Feb 2010 00:56:22 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19827 HA! You are SO FUNNY! I nearly peed myself laughing! But I feel the same way- I have a Dodge Dakota pickup truck with an extended cab- so how do I feel about getting out of the truck, pulling the chair out and wheeling? I feel like an obvious phony! HA! You are SO FUNNY! I nearly peed myself laughing! But I feel the same way- I have a Dodge Dakota pickup truck with an extended cab- so how do I feel about getting out of the truck, pulling the chair out and wheeling? I feel like an obvious phony!

]]> By: Beth http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19782 Beth Tue, 02 Feb 2010 08:24:40 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19782 We are all asuming here (yes, me too) that other people care. I don't actually think that many people would notice. Public restrooms are by nature not somewhere that people stay and hang about near. Strangers are not people that anyone takes much notice of. Therefore if someone did stay outside of a restroom for long enough to see any of us go both in and out I'd be surprised if they took all that much notice, especially of the apparently non-disabled persn going in. As a result they probably couldn't say for certain that we'd changed while in the cubicle. Also, if one or two people did notice something odd, does it matter all that much? The only time I really see it being an issue is if they come and try to talk to or confront us about it. I'm not saying that I would happily make the switch in any and every public restroom but there are quiet ones in lots of places that I would be happy to use for that purpose. Phil. I can't comment on Germany but in the UK you don't need to be disabled to get one of those toilet keys. There is a website run by the scheme where you can buy a key for about £5. I take mine with me whenever I wheel as most of the accessible toilets over here use the scheme locks. We are all asuming here (yes, me too) that other people care.

I don’t actually think that many people would notice.

Public restrooms are by nature not somewhere that people stay and hang about near. Strangers are not people that anyone takes much notice of. Therefore if someone did stay outside of a restroom for long enough to see any of us go both in and out I’d be surprised if they took all that much notice, especially of the apparently non-disabled persn going in.

As a result they probably couldn’t say for certain that we’d changed while in the cubicle.

Also, if one or two people did notice something odd, does it matter all that much? The only time I really see it being an issue is if they come and try to talk to or confront us about it.

I’m not saying that I would happily make the switch in any and every public restroom but there are quiet ones in lots of places that I would be happy to use for that purpose.

Phil. I can’t comment on Germany but in the UK you don’t need to be disabled to get one of those toilet keys. There is a website run by the scheme where you can buy a key for about £5. I take mine with me whenever I wheel as most of the accessible toilets over here use the scheme locks.

]]> By: Chris http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19781 Chris Tue, 02 Feb 2010 02:51:06 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19781 as someone whose biid involves wanting to be blind, this is a massive problem. When I leave the house, I don\'t want neighbors knowing, but the obvious solution above of driving for a wheelie doesn\'t help me at all (duh, a blind driver?). Cabs work, but that gets expensive. Sometimes it just requires spending some time in a bathroom or something like that. as someone whose biid involves wanting to be blind, this is a massive problem. When I leave the house, I don\’t want neighbors knowing, but the obvious solution above of driving for a wheelie doesn\’t help me at all (duh, a blind driver?). Cabs work, but that gets expensive. Sometimes it just requires spending some time in a bathroom or something like that.

]]> By: Phil http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19729 Phil Wed, 27 Jan 2010 12:12:45 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19729 Germany is deteriorating... About public transport: Public transport is bad. So you use a car. Thus, public transport lacks passengers and becomes worse. It's both a political question and a question of individual decisions. Somebody has to begin, otherwise there won't be a good public transport system. I am living in a big city with a very good public transport system. But when the weather allows, I go by bicycle. It is faster than public transport and faster than by car, it is more fun and healthier. This all would be much more difficult with a wheelchair. That's one of the reasons why I don't use it often. Germany is deteriorating…

About public transport:
Public transport is bad. So you use a car. Thus, public transport lacks passengers and becomes worse.

It’s both a political question and a question of individual decisions. Somebody has to begin, otherwise there won’t be a good public transport system.

I am living in a big city with a very good public transport system. But when the weather allows, I go by bicycle. It is faster than public transport and faster than by car, it is more fun and healthier.

This all would be much more difficult with a wheelchair. That’s one of the reasons why I don’t use it often.

]]> By: Sophie http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19725 Sophie Wed, 27 Jan 2010 02:06:52 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19725 Cars are a necessary evil in countries where the public transportation systems can't be relied on for day to day stuff. In my town if you wanna take the bus home you gotta essentially block an hour out of your day. You sit around waiting half an hour to an hour for a bus to come, then it takes half an hour to get home. Cars are a necessary evil in countries where the public transportation systems can’t be relied on for day to day stuff. In my town if you wanna take the bus home you gotta essentially block an hour out of your day. You sit around waiting half an hour to an hour for a bus to come, then it takes half an hour to get home.

]]> By: Peter http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19724 Peter Wed, 27 Jan 2010 00:46:55 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19724 Wat ist happening in Deutchland? No far-speakers, no autos and an EU commissioner who is impossible to understand. Wat ist happening in Deutchland? No far-speakers, no autos and an EU commissioner who is impossible to understand.

]]> By: Peter http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19723 Peter Wed, 27 Jan 2010 00:37:33 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19723 Ah. No car, not even your friend? That's not good. The car was the obvious solution. We'll think again. Ah. No car, not even your friend? That’s not good. The car was the obvious solution. We’ll think again.

]]> By: Phil http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19722 Phil Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:51:09 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19722 I guess I should be more cautious with my "thoughts" and "comments", but at least my English is a tiny little bit better than the English of the new German EU Commissioner Mr Oettinger: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rJiVHnjUZk Wait until he speaks English. They have abolished the telephone booths here. I am helpless. And I don't have a Volkswagen either, only a bicycle. Yes, there are people who don't have a car and are happy. Maybe I'll be me some mobile bushes to hide. And as a mask I could appear like Mr Oettinger. I guess I should be more cautious with my “thoughts” and “comments”, but at least my English is a tiny little bit better than the English of the new German EU Commissioner Mr Oettinger:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rJiVHnjUZk
Wait until he speaks English.

They have abolished the telephone booths here. I am helpless. And I don’t have a Volkswagen either, only a bicycle. Yes, there are people who don’t have a car and are happy.

Maybe I’ll be me some mobile bushes to hide. And as a mask I could appear like Mr Oettinger.

]]> By: Elisabeth http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19720 Elisabeth Tue, 26 Jan 2010 21:17:33 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19720 Chloe, you are the best! I just had a big laugh, my imagination went overdrive. And the suggestion even might be doable if one can find a wheelchair accessible booth. Had a weird experience today - didn't feel like wheeling. So I didn't, except for church. Wonder how long this will last? Chloe, you are the best! I just had a big laugh, my imagination went overdrive. And the suggestion even might be doable if one can find a wheelchair accessible booth.

Had a weird experience today - didn’t feel like wheeling. So I didn’t, except for church. Wonder how long this will last?

]]> By: Peter http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19719 Peter Tue, 26 Jan 2010 21:04:16 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19719 Dear Phil, saviour of the universe. To get around the problem of Jekyll having to hide (haha) couldn't you just chuck the chair in the Volkswagon and wheel from the parking to the store? Not-Normal-Peter Dear Phil, saviour of the universe. To get around the problem of Jekyll having to hide (haha) couldn’t you just chuck the chair in the Volkswagon and wheel from the parking to the store?

Not-Normal-Peter

]]> By: Chloe http://transabled.org/thoughts/other-thoughts/phils-thoughts/wheeling-for-cowards.htm/comment-page-1#comment-19714 Chloe Tue, 26 Jan 2010 16:51:03 +0000 http://transabled.org/?p=3874#comment-19714 Standard superhero procedure requires that you don your Mr. Wheel mask when you assemble your wheelchair in the telephone booth. That way nobody will recognise you. Don't forget to take your glasses off. Standard superhero procedure requires that you don your Mr. Wheel mask when you assemble your wheelchair in the telephone booth. That way nobody will recognise you. Don’t forget to take your glasses off.

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