Comments on: Most important thing in my life http://transabled.org/thoughts/most-important-thing-in-my-life.htm Talking about Body Integrity Identity Disorder - Just another disability! Sat, 11 Feb 2012 13:31:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.1 By: rorschach http://transabled.org/thoughts/most-important-thing-in-my-life.htm/comment-page-1#comment-569 rorschach Wed, 24 Jan 2007 10:40:44 +0000 http://transabled.org/thoughts/most-important-thing-in-her-life.htm#comment-569 I hope she can come to appreciate your honesty. I hope she can come to appreciate your honesty.

]]> By: Sandy http://transabled.org/thoughts/most-important-thing-in-my-life.htm/comment-page-1#comment-557 Sandy Mon, 22 Jan 2007 13:34:02 +0000 http://transabled.org/thoughts/most-important-thing-in-her-life.htm#comment-557 Hello Sean, Nice to hear you are back. I like this title "Most important thing in my life" as this is THE issue. For me, my husband is also not the most important "thing" which is not a problem because we share the #1 issue. It's not BIID which comes under "rest-of-my-life". It's our common faith in Christ - not religion! - a great foundation for our marriage. Here I realize again that my perspective is different from yours and many others. BIID is very strong. I have lived with it for more than 30 years and couldn't stop it, on the contrary. But it's not THE issue. The consequence of what I am writing her is that my husband might understand. Still I won't tell him. He would be too worried about me. Hello Sean,
Nice to hear you are back.
I like this title “Most important thing in my life” as this is THE issue. For me, my husband is also not the most important “thing” which is not a problem because we share the #1 issue. It’s not BIID which comes under “rest-of-my-life”. It’s our common faith in Christ – not religion! – a great foundation for our marriage. Here I realize again that my perspective is different from yours and many others. BIID is very strong. I have lived with it for more than 30 years and couldn’t stop it, on the contrary. But it’s not THE issue. The consequence of what I am writing her is that my husband might understand. Still I won’t tell him. He would be too worried about me.

]]> By: jen http://transabled.org/thoughts/most-important-thing-in-my-life.htm/comment-page-1#comment-546 jen Sat, 20 Jan 2007 15:17:08 +0000 http://transabled.org/thoughts/most-important-thing-in-her-life.htm#comment-546 I'm so sorry it has turned out this way. I'm sure her intentions were only for the best, hoping that she could continue to turn a blind eye to the issue, that it would go away, or resolve itself to her satisfaction. Unfortunately, all of these don't seem to include her working toward acceptance. I almost wonder if you could have continued life as a para. Most ABs would be none the wiser. I’m so sorry it has turned out this way. I’m sure her intentions were only for the best, hoping that she could continue to turn a blind eye to the issue, that it would go away, or resolve itself to her satisfaction. Unfortunately, all of these don’t seem to include her working toward acceptance.

I almost wonder if you could have continued life as a para. Most ABs would be none the wiser.

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