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Getting sick of all the “sex craved guys”

Written by Sophie on Monday, May 15, 2006

If you were offered the chance to make all your dreams come true would you take it?  If you had someone offer to help you get an sci would you accept their help?  If you had the chance to just move away and not have to worry about staying alive would you take that chance?  Being a woman can be so hard sometimes in this community. 

I get so many guys who message me just to try and get me to turn my webcam on.  I get guys who ask me if they can sit in my chair with me on their lap.  I get guys who ask me intimate questions about my sex life.  What gives them the right to ask such intimate questions?  Surely you wouldn’t find a woman asking a guy about these things so much (I’m sorry if I’m generalising), so why should us woman accept this treatment from the guys?  I’m sick of chatting with guys knowing the only reason why they like me is because I’m a female who is transabled.  As you would know the number of male pretenders vastly outnumbers the female pretenders.  Come on guys, please stop suffocating me.

And then I get guys who offer to help me get an sci when they find out that I’m transabled.  Guys who say they want to go out with me.  Guys who ask me to have cyber sex with me and tell me how they think I need loving.  Sure, I love attention the same as every other girl, but I find myself constantly having to readdress my morals and beliefs.  I refuse to change what I believe in just because a small part of my life is unconventional.  Whether or not I choose to be in a wheelchair does not affect whether I believe God exists.  I realise a lot of the dpws in this community do not believe in God but I do.  I feel like I’m being forced into a box titled “The Perfect Female Pretender”.  I’m not ParaCathy from the Paragirl site.  Her site was one of the first ones that helped me realise my feelings, but please stop trying to lump me into the fetishist/devotee group.  I don’t find wheelchairs sexually attractive.

How can I accept help from guys when I know their only motivation is the fact that I’m in a wheelchair.  I’ll admit there is the VERY OCCASIONAL guy that I come across that I feel safe talking to.  People like Sean.  But then I would never ask him to do something as profound as paralysing me.  If he offered to help I wouldn’t refuse, but that is only because I know his motivations are not sexual.  What is this long rant about?  I don’t know.  I guess I’m just sick of it all.  Please don’t assume every female pretender wants to “get it off”.  Please don’t expect every female pretender to cater to your every whim.  We are females.  We are not males.  We are “wired” differently.  We don’t exist purely to satisfy all the guys.  I only wish that I knew of more transabled females so we could band together and support each other in a way that only we could.  It’s ok talking to guys, but sometimes I just wish I could talk to a chick ya know?  Ok…I guess I’ll wind this up.  Thank you if you’ve read this far ;)

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